Why Didn't I Know? The Manifesto of the Exhausted "Messenger" From Friend Groups to Work Contracts
There are days you'll wake up and realize: You aren't a partner in planning. You were just made a human secretary, a messenger, and a stress shock-absorber. Whether it's a friend group, a project, or your actual day job (especially if you're stuck in the sub-contracting system), the story is always the same. You're the one catching the lists, you're the one grilled when things change, but when it comes to actual decisions and budgets? Total silence. 1. The Endless Loop of Lists and Commands It's easy to bark orders when you aren't the one doing the heavy lifting. Every single day, you get ambushed by a mountain of requests: "List this down." "Update the changes" (with zero in-game adjustments to their actual plans). "Why do you have no idea what's going on?" Why on earth do I have no idea? Simple: Not because you're too lazy to find out, but because you know you don't h...